“........We fail to acknowledge our differences is that while we were growing up, begin different meant begin laughed or rejected. We are afraid that someone will come along and correct us or judge us as wrong, bad or inadequate. Insecure people are everywhere and quite automatically pounce on anyone who starts to step out and be themselves. For this reason, differences can be seen as threat.
The true differences between men and women are actually complementary, giving each the opportunity to find balance. There complementary differences are what draw us to each other and create the mysterious feeling we call love.....”
After reading the above text from a book, it just strikes me on this guy whom I know recently. We know each other thru business relationship. We have a different characters and working attitude. I’m a workaholic whereas he is a person who enjoys life.
He is a caring person towards me and he will never end his concern towards me especially when i devoted my time to work then other things else.
He always told me to spend more time with others, relaxation, aiming for the work-life balance then devoting myself to work and nothing else... hahah.... maybe because of his wordings and the charm he have when he is enjoying his life, my feeling have unconsciously grew..
Initially, i did ask him why he show so much of concern towards me, well, he only mention he just don’t feel good when i devote myself to work. At that point of time i really assume he do feel for me like i do for him.
For the remaining 2 months, despite how busy and stress up, he will always be my energy booster and boost up my energy and be positive again to face the challenge. Sadly my energy booster didn’t last long...
After he return back from his business trip, we hardly contact each others. After which, i realise the reason he get close with me and treat me nice is due to the business relationship that we have and nothing else.
Well, i’m really feel begin silly at that point of time after knowing it but my level of feeling for him is above average and i do feel hurt when i know the news.
I tried to find out the truth from him but he shut me off but saying i think too much. After which, i didn’t contact him anymore expect for working matters.
After the incident, i have change. During those months when we are happily together, i learn to enjoy life.
Even now, i know the truth, i still want to thank him for giving such a hurtful lesson and how to enjoy my life as well......
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